I'm told that I'm to love the one I am with...

[thompkins]

I'm told that I'm to love the one I am with... but it is hard to love someone I do not respect.

[darsey]

you don't respect your wife? why did you marry her?

[Faz]

nope....hard to respect someone that feels that is taking advantage of you. i married my best friend. in marriage it seems that people change. some change for the better and she changed for the worse.

[patin]

i'm so sorry

[piotrowski]

thank you and i wish you posted this in green.

[darco]

why are you with someone u dont respect?

[matulis]

out of the deep love i have for my daughter.

[modestia]

you don't respect or love yourself, that's the

[wilmasarah]

you almost nailed it....i did not respect myself at the time i proposed. i settled and married a friend. i did not respect myself enough at that time to hold out for that someone.

[philpott]

it's very hard to regain respect too personally I think it's a dealbreaker.

[docken]

planning on breaking the deal.... problem is that it is going to take a lot of money and time. we were seperated for about 6 months. we have been together now for 8 months. when we were seperated she showed me that she will not got out without a fight and will fight for what ever she does not deserve. she has no job, no education, no techincal training so she will try to scam all she can.

[bloem]

see i wish i can just walk away. i have a little girl to think of too. i just have to deal with it and save for it.

[godoy]

yeah, I know it's very hard to untangle. I have four . But, you'll get there, eventually. I'm sorry, it really stinks.

[brunkow]

how did you deal with it till you left?

[schuster]

very, very difficult we lived together estranged for a long time. All I can say is take it one day at a time. And, when I finally left, I wasn't "ready" financially. But I had family to help a little and I quickly got on my own two feet. Now, I am much better off than even he is. lol!

[elvin]

awesome...thanks!